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		<title>Hobbies</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Apr 2011 19:40:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Girija</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Why do I not have any hobbies? As of today, the 2nd of March 2011, this question is bothering me. It is also the inspiration behind this writing. I do not know about kids today, and while I see no reason to call myself a grown-up, one of the most popular questions we asked each [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Why do I not have any hobbies? As of today, the 2nd of March 2011, this question is bothering me. It is also the inspiration behind this writing.</p>
<p>I do not know about kids today, and while I see no reason to call myself a grown-up, one of the most popular questions we asked each other during our childhood was &#8211; &#8220;What&#8217;s your hobby?&#8221;</p>
<p>After exchanging introductory greetings on meeting the first time, or probably after the two sets of parents left their children to play together while they could enjoy their own cup of tea and gossip, we asked each other this question: &#8220;Tumhari favourite hobby kya hai?&#8221; (Translation: &#8220;What is your &#8216;favourite&#8217; hobby?&#8221;), often accompanied by questions such as &#8211; &#8220;What&#8217;s your favourite game? Who is your favourite hero (i.e. actor)? Who is your favourite herione (i.e. actress)?&#8221; etc.</p>
<p>This was an integral part of all childhood conversations; in the little bit of English we knew, we would try to chat up. Of course, the language used to move swiftly from English, to Hinglish, and eventually to the native Hindi. &#8216;Shyness&#8217; came naturally to many of us, and the hobby question was an important ice-breaker. On many occasions, it was the parents who introduced the children to each other, hoping they would then converse freely. This had a good failure rate too, as many times we would just not get along even after being left to the company of one another.</p>
<p><img class="size-full wp-image-1724 alignright" style="float: right;" title="My hobby is playing cricket" src="http://thedyc.org/blog/wp-content/2011/04/SP69888.jpg" alt="My hobby is playing cricket" width="229" height="152" />But whenever the attempt was successful, there was a general pattern of reciprocation that the hobby question followed -</p>
<blockquote><p>Question: &#8220;Teri hobby kya hai?&#8221; (Translation:  &#8220;Hey, what is your hobby?&#8221;)<br />
Reply: &#8221; Meri hobby?&#8230;aaa&#8230;drawing. Aur teri?&#8221; (Translation: &#8220;My hobby?&#8230; is drawing. And yours?&#8221;)<br />
Response to reply: &#8220;Cricket khelna. Aur mera favourite batsman hai Sachin.&#8221; (Translation: My hobby is playing cricket. And my favourite batsman is Sachin Tendulkar.)</p></blockquote>
<p>It wasn&#8217;t like we didn&#8217;t have any worthwhile question to ask&#8230;perhaps  we didn&#8217;t&#8230;but childhood conversations usually didn&#8217;t build up like interactions <span id="more-1678"></span>among adults do. One reason was also that these talks were accompanied by other more engaging activties like playing games, fiddling around with things, etc. Nevertheless, it gave us the golden opportunity to brag&#8230;boast about ourselves and our likings to our heart&#8217;s content.</p>
<p>Kids apart, the hobby question was frequently posed by adults too: &#8220;Beta aapki hobby kya hai?&#8221; (&#8220;What&#8217;s your hobby child?&#8221;); with occasional omission of the word &#8216;hobby&#8217;: &#8220;Beta aapko kya accha lagta hai?&#8221; (&#8220;What do you like doing son?&#8221;)<br />
So it was a standard practice among adults too &#8211; teachers, uncle and aunties, relatives whom we loved, relatives whom we hated &#8211; just about everybody had this question for us children.</p>
<p>Enter Adolesence. Exit innocence.</p>
<p>Like many other things that either got corrupted or substituted, the hobby question too got lost somewhere down the line. The question that took the mantle became ubiquitous in no time, well before we started acknowledging its coming to power and its omnipresence, and certainly ages before we acknowledged that it was the most dumb question of all, elliciting the most frank and spontaneous response there could ever be. It is &#8216;the&#8217; question of our times, and even though it starts an interaction instead of breaking-ice like the hobby question did, its meaning in our lives is not less significant in any way.</p>
<blockquote><p>No more mystery&#8230;&#8217;the&#8217; question is: &#8220;HEY, WHAT&#8217;S UP?&#8221;, and the prompt reply is: &#8220;NOTHING YAAR&#8230;&#8221; (Translation: &#8220;Nothing  friend&#8230;&#8221;)</p></blockquote>
<p>{Hail Cultural Imperialism. Hats off&#8217; to Cultural Imperialism. And Blame the media}</p>
<div id="attachment_1723" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 360px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1723 " title="Tum engineer hee banoge- forget about music" src="http://thedyc.org/blog/wp-content/2011/04/tum-engineer-hee-banoge-forget-about-music.jpg" alt="Tum engineer hee banoge- forget about music" width="350" height="233" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Tum engineer hee banoge (You have to become an engineer)</p></div>
<blockquote><p>Other intruders in our set of popular questions were much more annoying: &#8220;Will you take Science or Commerce? So what do you plan to do after class 12th? After Graduation? After Post-Graduation? Will you get a job in this field?&#8221; etc.<br />
Let me not forget to mention the childhood question which actually is the predecessor of all these annoying questions, always posed by adults to kids- &#8220;So what do you want to be when you grow up? A doctor? An engineer?&#8221;</p></blockquote>
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		<title>Lessons from the Household: The tale of the fingernails</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 19 Dec 2010 23:06:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Girija</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[What have I learnt? This is the question that directs my better sense in every &#8216;this&#8217;… For me, a great source of learning what is good and what is not has been my own household. Probably, your dwelling is that part of life that allows you lengthy periods of inertia; freedom from explicit awareness of [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: justify;">What have I learnt? This is the question that directs my better sense in every &#8216;this&#8217;…</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">For me, a great source of learning what is good and what is not has been my own household. Probably, your dwelling is that part of life that allows you lengthy periods of inertia; freedom from explicit awareness of location. <span id="more-1520"></span>Admittedly, it is good to have that.  However, once in a while there is a situation or episode that jolts you out of your listless existence; taking you on a journey from the mundane to the most profound of lessons.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Staying abreast with the day to day developments taking place within the confines of my residence has been quite a challenge for me in recent times. My routine as regards getting myself formal education is demanding enough to keep me mentally, if not physically, occupied for most part of the day &#8211; including my sleep hours. This has a behavioral dimension, with the effect that I fail to take note of thoughtfully unimportant yet perceivably significant things about myself. Personal tidiness, for one, is nowhere near the top of my list of personal priorities. Combined with forgetfulness, the resulting consequences can be serious; even disquieting for that matter. Read on to know more.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">It so happened that I hadn’t trimmed my fingernails in a while. It’s not surprising, for when your entire focus is on getting your study act right, even something as criminal as skipping meals doesn’t bother you much. My mother is a vociferous critic of such carelessness; understandably so. In matters of physical well-being, there is no compromise; as she often gets upset to the extent of losing her temper. Something as unkempt as untrimmed fingernails really gets her into action – it’s as though an irritant has entered her eyes!</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">On a typical Sunday afternoon, my parents and I have lunch with my maternal grandparents. It’s one of those places – the dining table – where just anything can become the topic of an engaging discussion. Given a choice, I would never want myself or anything to do with that to become the topic. But being the only ‘kid’ around, evasion is not easy. Even if I go unnoticed there, courtesy more important issues like my grandparents’ health or somebody’s marriage, there is simply no escape during the lounge session in which the sweets-after-the-meals are savoured. As it is, I am not too fond of sweets, and people in my family think that I refuse to consume them ‘cause I am weight conscious. On the whole, the setting is almost always perfect for the inspection of me – from the hair on my head to the soles of my footwear. My grandfather lovingly asks me every now and then – Health Bulletin <em>ke kya haal hain? </em>(What’s up with your health!?) He particularly dislikes my keeping a goatee, which he disapproves by calling it <em>Bakara Daari</em> (Goat’s beard)…though he encourages me to apply a <em>fixxo</em> to my mustache, which involves growing a mustache long and thick enough to give it an upward curl on both ends!</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Pampered I have been, and it seems pampered I will be.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">This past Sunday, during the sweets’ session, my Grandfather pointedly said to me that my nails have indeed grown big; implying that I really need to clip them. My mother had already thrown light upon the matter during lunch; I had been slapped-on-the-wrist and asked to take care of the outgrowth a.s.a.p. Thankfully, she was not around when my grandfather worded his observation; his opinion automatically increases the force of the argument.</p>
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<p style="text-align: justify;">My parents arrived home a little later than myself. They were expecting me to have cut my nails by the time they reached home, whereas the thought had not even occurred to me. My mother was quick to notice this – my father wouldn’t have been able to take note even if I had met him face-to-face, which I actually didn’t until a couple of hours later. When my mother suggested that I should get going right away, I excused myself by saying that I was sleepy. However, I told her that even <em>Nanaji</em> (Grandpa) had asked me to get rid of my dirty nails. The acknowledgment had the anticipated effect, but I was able to postpone the much-in-demand act.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">But I was certainly reminded that I was giving germs license to enter my system.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">The real thing happened after I woke up early evening. The first thing my mother uttered was ‘get up and cut your nails’. The calmness rewarded by a good nap discouraged me to make the move. So I said that let me do the needful next morning. And I reiterated the same at her subsequent assertions. That’s when she lost her cool – the first thing she did was shout down-the-stairs &#8211; to tell my father that I was not giving in. This is something that I don’t quite like. So I became even more resolute (I give myself some grace by not using the word s-t-u-b-b-o-r-n!).</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">To add to the stupidity of the situation, I started teasing mummy instead of agreeing to do what I had to. In response, she scolded me and reminded me how I leave everything to ‘tomorrow’. As her anger grew, she said a couple of other things which she unarguably shouldn’t have.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">In the midst of this, I had already made a trip downstairs to where my father was watching TV. Having received the news from upstairs, he too theorized about my habit of procrastination. I argued that it didn’t apply to a petty activity like trimming nails. But he was vehement as usual.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">My mother maintained her note as I returned upstairs to pick up a few things. The nail cutter was waiting – resting on the table. Seeing the inappropriateness of her tone continue, I too let my guard down and proclaimed that I do not agree with her concept of cleanliness. I went to the extent of saying that I cannot respect such behavior on her part. But all too much had been said and I had no choice but to give in. After having heard from her that I won’t be able to concentrate on my studies until and unless I clipped my nails short, I was feeling angry and hurt.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Papa, however, was right. Nails’ maintenance took me exactly 2 minutes. While I was subconsciously appreciative of this, I was determined to not talk to my mother for sometime – quite some time to be honest. But everything changed after I sat next to my father; having accomplished the task.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">It is one of the most unique conversational experiences I have ever had. The conversation started off by my complaining to Papa about mummy’s unjustified behavior. It’s not good, I said – how she gets hyper for small things.  When he repeated his own opinion about my procrastination and its ramifications, I said one of those things that I regard as completely original and clever. It doesn’t sound the same when said in English as it does in Hindi but here goes:</p>
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<p style="text-align: justify;">Ahem…Has it ever happened that my fingernails have remained uncut? (Can it ever happen???!!)</p>
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<p style="text-align: justify;">This wasn’t the first time I had worded this sentiment; I’ve used it whenever asked urgently to trim nails. This time out, it did manage to mollify my father.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">My father then addressed my concern regarding my mother’s behavior. What he said took me by surprise (no one like him, I must confess…): “She does get angry once in a while but she has changed her attitude a lot over the years, and is still i-m-p-r-o-v-i-n-g”.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">The words struck me. Having been familiarized with the ‘Feelings Cycle’ at the Doon Youth Centre (DYC), they made a lot more sense to me than I assume they would to people who haven’t heard of it. I couldn’t then, and can’t now, deny that my mother has made some very good changes in her lifestyle.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">How could I obstruct her humble efforts by enacting ‘reactive choices’ like not talking to her or telling her that she is unreasonable and difficult? Foolish it would have been, had I made such a choice. In an instant, I had a change of heart…</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">That is when the thought occurred that I could manage my ruffled feelings by writing down the experience. That is how this post happened. It was the best response I could think of!</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Later that day, I had a long chat with my mother when she was in the mood. Really, all she had wanted was me to trim my fingernails. She was pleased to see that I had done the job, and I was calm enough to let her know that I had planned not to talk to her! I got my opportunity to explain my point of view. I did a lot of <em>bakwaas </em>(Translation _________ )&#8230;countered everything that she had to say&#8230;</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">But it was okay. The in-the-end was worth the trouble&#8230;</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">As it always is&#8230;!</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Situations keep happening, and methinks that the best ones happen at home. Admirably, it is the little things that give you away. Rather, it’s the little things that give you a way…to be better in every sense of the term.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Probably, the best four words that can precede the clause ‘from this situation’ are ‘What can I learn’. This is what the tale of the fingernails has taught me &#8211; but I can already see &#8211; there is a lot more to come out of my household…</p>


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		<title>What choice do I have?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Apr 2010 08:33:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Girija</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was driving down memory lane today when the memory of a GD(group discussion) we had at the old DYC came to life. And it literally came to life, posing the same questions to me as it did then. The discussion was about political corruption. And the Yaksha Prashna (read as: million dollar question) was [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was driving down memory lane today when the memory of a GD(group discussion) we had at the old DYC came to life. And it literally came to life, posing the same questions to me as it did then.</p>
<p>The discussion was about political corruption. And the <em>Yaksha Prashna </em>(read as: million dollar question) was that given the corrupt political system that we Indians have, should one vote or not?<span id="more-1281"></span></p>
<p>I was very vehement in stating that since everybody is corrupt, it is a good idea not to vote. At least, at the end of the day you would have the satisfaction of saying that I was no way a part of something that will eventually do much wrong.</p>
<p>Most of us agreed that the only solution was a focus on ethics&#8230;a system of education wherein one can understand the significance of values. And the hope rests in our generation&#8230;seeing more integrity of character enter into politics rather than being absorbed by the IIMs and IITs.</p>
<p>But the question still held. The change can&#8217;t come overnight; and the returns can only come in the future. So what should one do now? Vote or stay away?<img class="alignright size-full wp-image-1285" title="VOTE" src="http://thedyc.org/blog/wp-content/2010/04/VOTE-e1271665741434.jpg" alt="" width="265" height="324" /></p>
<p>One of the perspectives that surfaced was that we should all support the mission of values, which will be a continuous process; and as of now, vote for somebody who&#8217;s less corrupt. It sounded like a reasonable solution to me. It seemed like an answer. End of the day, I forgot about the whole discussion.</p>
<p>But today, as I was riding to appear in my exam, the thought came up again. The question felt sharper. Now the question was: HOW CAN ONE FIND OUT WHO IS LESS CORRUPT ?</p>
<p>Apart from being  very politically aware, there is no other way to uncover reality. And even then, the doubts may still linger. Are the media reporting facts or are they opinionated &amp; biased?</p>
<p>Often, the choice is not &#8211; whether to vote for <strong>Madhu Koda</strong> or not? Those are high profile cases. In general we have lesser known candidates to choose from. One way to make up your mind is go by the political party&#8217;s name, make the inference based on its image. Another important question is that what is the standing of the candidate within the party? He may be a mere instruction follower (I refrain from using the word &#8220;puppet&#8221;).</p>
<p>I mean I can go on &amp; on about the questions that the situation poses.</p>
<p>Also, corruption has no absolutes. Finding out who is less corrupt is almost impossible, and it is a very relative concept. Who&#8217;s better&#8230;the guy who ate a pie worth Rs. XXX crore out of the funds allocated for public welfare&#8230;or the guy whose negligence led to a mishap which killed XXX number of people? Mind you, the Rs. XXX crore also kills relentlessly;one can check the statistics on the number of deaths due to poverty and hunger; a glimpse:</p>
<div>►According to the Central Government’s own estimate, around 1,83,000 farmers had killed themselves between 1997 and 2007.</div>
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<div>►However, total cases of pesticide suicides (i.e., including the family member of the farmer who committed suicide on pesticides) in the same periods was 2,38,082 .</div>
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<div>I won&#8217;t attribute corruption as the only cause of this massacre, but it certainly is a big contributor. Imagine,when this is the state of our country what are you doing with your Rs. XXX crore safely locked away in some bank?</div>
<p>I&#8217;m in a dilemma; I must admit. How do I carry out my responsibility and keep my conscience clear at the same time?  Hence, I beckon you all to come up with a solution.</p>


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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Mar 2010 13:40:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Girija</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A big Hi to everyone associated with the blog. Here is something that I wrote for a class assignment. I thought it may be worthwhile to let people on the blog read it. Well, there is one caution: what I&#8217;ve written may just go over the heads of many a reader! I sincerely hope that [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>A big Hi to everyone associated with the blog.</em></p>
<p><em>Here is something that I wrote for a class assignment. </em><a title="Media in my Head " rel="lightbox" href="http://thedyc.org/blog/wp-content/2010/03/media.jpg" class="lightbox" ><em><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-1014" title="media" src="http://thedyc.org/blog/wp-content/2010/03/media.jpg" alt="" width="168" height="194" /></em></a><em>I thought it may be worthwhile to let peopl</em><em>e on the blog read it. </em><em>Well, </em><em>there is one caution: what I&#8217;ve written may just go over the heads</em><em> of many a reader! I sincerely hope that it won&#8217;t.</em></p>
<p><em>But if it does become hard to comprehend, I&#8217;ll be more than happy to clarify. Needless to say, comments are welcome. Also, it is important for me to know readers&#8217; perspectives and opinions in order to do justice to the issue of media effects.</em></p>
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<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>Does the society have the power to exercise judgment over media messages as the media has to send messages and influence the former?</strong></span></p>
<p>There can be no objective, yes or no kind of answer to this question. In fact, before giving any answer to the above question, one needs to dig deep into the literature of media effects. One also needs to ask questions like, ‘who are we referring to when we talk about ‘society’?’, ‘what is the meaning of ‘the power to exercise judgment’? What are its implications?’</p>
<p>I shall state two perspectives as an attempt to answer the above questions.</p>
<p>The first perspective is called the ‘direct effects’ perspective and it postulates that mass media are powerful agents of change which can influence the society. It gives an understanding that the society is defenseless against the power of mass media and is likely to get uniformly affected by whatever media content is targeted at them. In essence, this point of view suggests that the society does not have the power to exercise judgment over media content.</p>
<p>The second perspective is a sociopath-psychological perspective which borrows heavily from the disciplines of psychology and sociology so as to alter the equation between media and society suggested by the ‘direct effects’ perspective. It suggests that people have certain selective processes by means of which they can select or reject media content. People are psychologically predisposed to be attentive to only certain media messages and may ignore a lot of the media content that is targeted at them. For instance, people may want to watch, read or hear only that media content that is aligned with their belief system or with the existing norms of the society. Social factors such as gender and economic class may play an important role in the selection process. <strong>Individuals may ignore media content which conflicts their values, attitudes and beliefs.</strong></p>
<p>The two perspectives differ not only in what they state, but also in their understanding of the society. The first perspective regards society as a single, undifferentiated entity while the second perspective negates this point of view. One may decide on his own as to which perspective is correct, but the second perspective makes more sense to me. Society also implies diversity to some extent. It can’t be regarded as a homogeneous entity as individuals or groups within the society differ in their values, attitudes, beliefs, cultures and socio-economic status. Therefore, it would not be logical to assume that their media preferences or media consumption habits would be the same.</p>
<p>The Indian society in particular represents diversity of culture, value systems and socio-economic backgrounds. Thus, media power is not uniform across the society. A lot of people in India have specific preferences as to what they want to watch, hear and read. For example, gadget crazy people may have no business watching daily soaps or news channels, or even reading newspapers. Discussions on news channels and articles in the print media regarding the current trends in the news media are indicative of the fact that a part of our society is critical of the current state of news media and are concerned about its future. People having moralistic stands may even protest against objectionable media content. The question-‘How and in what ways do media affect us?’- that the community of communication and media scholars has been trying to address is itself an evidence that the society has intervention in the shaping of mass media.</p>
<p>However, within the society, there are certain groups that are particularly vulnerable to the power of media. These groups may lack the mental capability to analyse media content critically and are highly susceptible to media influence. Examples of such groups are children and the people living in the villages who lack the shields of knowledge and reasoning to protect them from the influences of mass media, meaning that they take media content at face value.</p>
<p>If an individual is unable to assess the validity of media content, then his or her worldview may be directly affected by media. Hence, most children consider what they watch on television to be real. Also, some adults fail to take note of the disclaimer which is displayed at the start of fictional television programs. To this end, it would not be wrong to say that the power to exercise judgment over media content is determined by the extent to which one’s critical reasoning and logical faculty is developed and what the level of awareness about media effects is.</p>
<p>However, these are not the only exceptions. The power of media has been greatly boosted by the technological innovations of the recent years. A significant percentage of media content especially films utilize graphics, special effects and various other technologies to enhance the overall impact of the content. Individuals consuming such media content register such stimuli unconsciously. The effects of these technologies on an individual’s psyche are something that is still under research and study. It is interesting to know that even an elementary variable such as a camera angle in television and films can orient responses in the viewers, that is, different camera angles lead to different perceptions of the same object. By my own experience, graphical illustrations such bar graphs showing the results of an opinion poll have a much greater impact than words spoken by a news anchor. Conclusively, there are some aspects of media presentation that can cause audiences to react involuntarily. Since this process happens subconsciously, individuals can’t exercise judgment in the same way as they can over the subject matter of the media message.</p>
<p>Thus, on the one hand, individuals in a society can avoid exposure to media content and thus reject its influence; on the other hand they can’t escape some of the effects if they consume particular media. Also, since the society is complex and heterogeneous, one can’t claim or dismiss its power to exercise judgment over mass media content altogether.</p>


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		<title>A New Year and more of prosperity and peace</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Jan 2010 05:24:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Wishing everybody a very Happy New Year ! In my opinion, starting 2010 on a positive note would be a better choice than to be indifferent and think &#8230;Oh&#8230;it&#8217;s just another year&#8230; (I hope nobody thinks like that !). It is for this reason, I&#8217;ve decided to post an article and it hasn&#8217;t been written [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: center"><em>Wishing everybody a very Happy New Year ! </em></p>
<p style="text-align: center"><em>In my opinion, starting 2010 on a positive note would be a better choice than to be indifferent and think &#8230;Oh&#8230;it&#8217;s just another year&#8230; (I hope nobody thinks like that !).</em></p>
<p style="text-align: center"><em>It is for this reason, I&#8217;ve decided to post an article and it hasn&#8217;t been written by me.</em></p>
<p style="text-align: center"><em> The aricle was published in TOI on the 1st&#8230;I guess.  This article makes for  light reading  and I sincerely hope that </em><em>readers would like it.</em></p>
<p style="text-align: center"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>A New Year and more of prosperity and peace</strong></span><em><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-834" title="peace_love1" src="http://thedyc.org/blog/wp-content/2010/01/peace_love1.jpg" alt="peace_love1" width="75" height="75" /></em></p>
<p>Welcome the New Year with a genuine smile. As you flip the calendar, keep flipping your mind as well. Don’t fill your future dates with past events. Learn and unlearn from the past, and move on.</p>
<p>You want to be free of greed, hatred, jealousy and all such imperfections. Understand that negative emotions are due to the past. Do not let the past affect your life in the present. If you cannot forgive the past, then your future will be miserable. This New Year make up with someone with whom you are not on good terms. Start life afresh.<span id="more-830"></span></p>
<p>In the New Year, wish peace and prosperity for all. Do selfless service. Live your life well. Realise that your priority is to check violence in the world, free of domestic and societal violence. Make a resolution to do more good, help people in need and bring solace to those suffering.</p>
<p>Whenever you are useful to people, merit will never be lost. Any good gesture or action of yours will always come back to you.  Today you have the whole world for a family. That’s what you need to feel, that everybody is part of your own family. Take responsibility. Then there is no suffering.</p>
<p>The spiritual dimension of life brings a great sense of belongingness, responsibility, compassion and caring for the whole world, for all life. In its truest form spirituality helps us overcome narrow boundaries of caste, creed, religion and nationality and give you a broader awareness of life everywhere.<img class="size-full wp-image-837 alignright" title="peace_love2" src="http://thedyc.org/blog/wp-content/2010/01/peace_love21.jpg" alt="peace_love2" width="70" height="127" /></p>
<p>Open your eyes and see how much you have been given. Focus on what you have rather than what you don’t have. The more grateful you are, the more will be given to you.</p>
<p>With gratitude, reach out and help those who are less endowed. You will get much contentment when you serve selflessly. Then you realise that your problems aren’t so big after all. The biggest reason for mental depression is the constant refrain of the mind that says, “What about me?” This is a sign of lack of prosperity.</p>
<p>Become free like a bird. Open your wings and learn to fly. This is something you have to experience within yourself.  If you think you are in bondage, you will remain bound here. Be free. When will you experience freedom? After you die? Become free right now. Sit down and become contented. This not only calms your mind, your inner self becomes strong enough to deal with challenges.</p>
<p>When the mind relaxes, the intellect becomes sharp. When the mind is loaded with ambitions and feverish desires, then the intellect loses its keenness. When intellect and observation are not sharp, life does not express itself fully. Ideas don’t flow properly and abilities diminish day by day. With this understanding, you step out of your narrow confines and that will solve many of the problems in your life. When you are centred, there is happiness always. With this calmness, talents arise naturally. Intuition comes, beauty comes, peace comes; Love springs up. Prosperity comes.</p>


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		<title>October 2009 : Bollywood’s crisis of Originality and Sense</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Nov 2009 10:13:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[‘No-brainers’ and ‘borrowed ideas’ seem to be the flavour of the season. What is even more astonishing is the fact that they’re arriving one-after-the-other. If the preceding sentences aren’t sufficiently suggestive, then let me clarify that I am referring to the Bollywood films that have been released this October. Since they form one of the [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>‘No-brainers’ and ‘borrowed ideas’ seem to be the flavour of the season. What is even more astonishing is the fact that they’re arriving one-after-the-other. If the preceding sentences aren’t sufficiently suggestive, then let me clarify that I am referring to the Bollywood films that have been released this October. Since they form one of the largest portions of our total media consumption, it would be interesting to retrospect what we’ve consumed over the last one month.</p>
<p>Before I proceed, I’d like to state that my argument <span id="more-688"></span>would be limited to only a few films, though it is applicable to almost all the Bollywood films released in October. The films under my scanner are the ones with the bigger budgets &amp; major star casts. Let’s first talk about <em>Blue</em> which was widely promoted as the most expensive Bollywood film till date. It turned out to be a “clichéd underwater thriller” wherein the protagonists get to find a lost treasure. Now that is a sort of story for which one doesn’t need to look for a film from the west, from which the story may have been ‘inspired’. If the producers are to be believed, then it took over Rs. 100 crore to make <em>Blue</em>, which becomes somewhat evident after seeing the number of underwater stunts &amp; action sequences in the film. Unfortunately the 100 crores did little for the script, which seems to have been written to somehow accommodate the idea of finding some treasure. Despite a large number of sharks guarding it, the treasure is found almost effortlessly; but what happens before, during and after the treasure hunt is something that film critic Sonia Chopra (of Sify) describes as “a ruined affair….wasting all the moolah its producers pumped in.”<em></em></p>
<p>So, <em>Blue </em>turns out to be a film which manages to lure the viewer to buy a ticket, mainly because of the way it has been promoted; but fails to leave any impact which is evident from the fact that after an impressive opening collection of 32 crores in the first week, the collections have dropped by 50% in the second week itself.  Sonia Chopra sums it up by saying, “A shoddy script and corny dialogues leave ‘Blue’ in all despair… In totality, ‘Blue’ is a damp squib that fails to live up to the expectations it had raised.”</p>
<p><em>Acid Factory </em>was<em> </em>another highly stylized action-flick which was released in the month of October.<em> </em>It is a little known fact that this film is a remake of a lesser known Hollywood movie called <em>Unknown.</em> However, it is very much in line with producer Sanjay Gupta’s style of film-making which usually includes men in black, women in high heels, bikes, cars, industrial settings and above all, storylines that are brazenly lifted from Hollywood. <em>Acid factory </em>is a story about a motley group comprising an undercover cop, a bunch of crooks and two hostages who find themselves locked inside an acid factory, suffering from partial amnesia. Before the faceless gangster, plaguing them on the phone, reaches them, they must find out their forgotten identities and loyalties. Doesn’t this narrative sound familiar? It surely does to me, for it’s a formula that has been utilized in Hollywood films and American T.V. series time and again. Moreover, ‘partial amnesia’ seems to be on the way of becoming the most popular mental ailment in Hindi cinema, especially after being shown in the Aamir Khan starrer <em>Ghajini</em> (a big budget, action flick) <em> </em>last year and <em>Acid Factory</em> this year. Keeping the ‘remake’ aspect of <em>Acid Factory</em> aside, the film also couldn’t click at the box office. According to Box Office of India it was a disaster, with a final gross of Rs. 3,83,00,000. This amount is nothing compared to the film’s budget of Rs. 25 crore, including print and publicity. In a slightly different way of saying the same thing, the problem with Acid Factory seems to be that it scores high in “edgy violence” &amp; style but falls short on drama. Film critic Mihir Fadnavis of <em>India.com</em>, who gave the film 1 and a half star out of 5, dismisses the film by saying that &#8220;Acid Factory is a deluge of bullets and chop-socky madness devoid of style or purpose.&#8221;</p>
<p>The month of October also witnessed the release of<em> London Dreams</em>, a Bollywood flick ‘inspired’ from the legendary<em> </em>film <em>Amadeus</em> which won 8 Oscars  in 1984. <em>Amadeus </em>was based on the rivalry of music composers Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart and Antonio Salieri. Similarly <em>London Dreams</em> sees a lesser talented Ajay Devgan articulating a similar angst against his gifted friend, Salman Khan, who steals the thunder, despite his disinterest in super stardom. However, the similarity ends here because <em>London Dreams </em>has a plot that often borders on the implausible. For instance, Ajay Devgan’s journey from Bhatinda to London, his growing up in an alien country on his own by playing flute at street corners, his forming a band with a group of stagglers, his instantaneous rise to popularity by singing songs in Hindi in front of an English audience, and his sudden emotional outburst to a 90,000-strong crowd in the Wembley stadium, all lack depth. The effortless spontaneity with which the story unfolds makes the script writer’s imagination somewhat unrealistic. Noted film critic Rajeev Masand made a scathing review of the movie, describing it as a “frustratingly foolish film about foolish people”.<em> </em>Rediff.com goes onto slam the remake quotient of the film by writing – “And while <em>London Dreams </em>may have liberally borrowed from the classic <em>Amadeus</em>, it comes across as one of those &#8216;Made-in-China&#8217; copies. There&#8217;s nothing inside.” The 70 crore budget of <em>London Dreams </em>provide it technical flourish and the lavish canvas, but the script writing of Suresh Nair has been graded as “poor and dim-witted” by the critics. All in all, <em>London Dreams </em>comes across as a borrowed idea which is also low on IQ.</p>
<p>The abbreviation IQ which stands for intelligence quotient, also reminds of a host of October releases that seem to be completely deprived of it. <em>All The Best, Fruit &amp; Nut </em>and <em>Aladin </em>all fall under this category. Out of these three films, <em>All The Best</em> has the biggest budget, of around Rs. 35 crore. Devgn Productions, under whose banner this film has been made, claim they&#8217;ve spent Rs 5 crore on publicity while sources say they have actually spent double of that. Notwithstanding this huge amount, the storyline of this film is probably the lamest among all the releases mentioned so far. Inspired by the play <em>Right Bed, Wrong Husband</em>, it&#8217;s a star-studded affair, featuring seasoned actors like Sanjay Dutt and Ajay Devgan. The star cast was utilized to its fullest during the promotion of the film, appearing even during commercial breaks on sports channels, wishing the Indian Cricket team ‘All the best’ for an upcoming cricket tournament. However, using the media is just a means to bring people to the cinema halls.  It doesn’t prevent the viewers and reviewers from speaking their mind. “There&#8217;s no real plot to speak of. Basically, anything and everything in <em>All The Best</em> happens with the sole aim of generating a joke. Try and make sense of this and you will end up giving yourself a headache.” , is how Rediff.com describes <em>All The Best</em>.</p>
<p>I do not feel the need, nor am I motivated to exemplify the crisis of originality and sense any more. So the end result of this diagnosis is that the crores of rupees invested in developing expensive sets, star casts, styling, stunts and promotion have gone to a waste, primarily because the script writing was paid the least attention among all the aspects. As a reminder, India is a country where a vast majority of the citizens don’t even know the number of zeroes in a 100 crore or even a 50 crore for that matter. It is a fact that the people go to the cinemas for entertainment, but it is also true that they expect value for their money. The Bollywood films released this October certainly disappoint the viewers and give nothing in return, apart from making them pay out of their recession-hit-hard-earned money. I’d like to end my argument by stating a remark from my software engineer brother whose main source of recreation are the films that he watches on saturdays &amp; sundays when he doesn’t have any work. He says, “I think I’ve wasted all my weekends in October.”</p>
<p>- GIRIJA</p>


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