Comments on: Can You Help Me ? Post #2 http://thedyc.org/blog/can-you-help-me-post-2/ Empowering youth for complete and transformed individuals of tomorrow ! Thu, 10 May 2012 18:07:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: admin http://thedyc.org/blog/can-you-help-me-post-2/#comment-3053 admin Fri, 05 Mar 2010 20:39:34 +0000 http://thedyc.org/blog/?p=944#comment-3053 Still pissed ! Still pissed !

]]> By: Sidd http://thedyc.org/blog/can-you-help-me-post-2/#comment-3044 Sidd Fri, 05 Mar 2010 19:03:58 +0000 http://thedyc.org/blog/?p=944#comment-3044 I tell you one thing. I am angry. <img src="http://thedyc.org/blog/wp-content/2010/03/Angry_64.png" alt="" /> Not at the kids, but at the parents. If given a chance, I'd like to some bashing. Our kids our suffering. Our kids our not heard. Our kids find little or no (mostly no) help at school and home. Our kids have no role models. I am not saying that learning to be pro-active will not help. My anger here is on the injustice that we have done to them. Not giving them that we should have, not teaching them what we should have, not modeling what we should have, and now wanting them to do everything by themselves to be able to deal with the mess that may find themselves today. If our kids need to be pro-active then the best way that could be possible is by modeling them. And who should have done that ? Parents long time and even now ! But boy our parents missed a lot by a long shot. And when I see what parents can drive their children to, It just pisses me off. I'd like to put parents into school and have them qualify to have children , If I could ! I tell you one thing. I am angry.
Not at the kids, but at the parents. If given a chance, I’d like to some bashing.
Our kids our suffering.
Our kids our not heard.
Our kids find little or no (mostly no) help at school and home.
Our kids have no role models.

I am not saying that learning to be pro-active will not help.
My anger here is on the injustice that we have done to them. Not giving them that we should have, not teaching them what we should have, not modeling what we should have, and now wanting them to do everything by themselves to be able to deal with the mess that may find themselves today.
If our kids need to be pro-active then the best way that could be possible is by modeling them.
And who should have done that ? Parents long time and even now !
But boy our parents missed a lot by a long shot. And when I see what parents can drive their children to, It just pisses me off.
I’d like to put parents into school and have them qualify to have children , If I could !

]]> By: anshul http://thedyc.org/blog/can-you-help-me-post-2/#comment-3042 anshul Fri, 05 Mar 2010 18:37:59 +0000 http://thedyc.org/blog/?p=944#comment-3042 Issues such as these remind me of the workshop that we had regarding self hurt.This also is an eg. of highly reactive indivisual.This is where the understanding of the circle of control and life skills come into play,,the child needs to take control of his own life and its difficult for him to do so coz the envoirment does not support this. Iam sure there are many more questions in his mind but untill and unless he takes his own charge it will be a big struggle. Issues such as these remind me of the workshop that we had regarding self hurt.This also is an eg. of highly reactive indivisual.This is where the understanding of the circle of control and life skills come into play,,the child needs to take control of his own life and its difficult for him to do so coz the envoirment does not support this. Iam sure there are many more questions in his mind but untill and unless he takes his own charge it will be a big struggle.

]]> By: Siddharth http://thedyc.org/blog/can-you-help-me-post-2/#comment-3589 Siddharth Fri, 05 Mar 2010 13:37:16 +0000 http://thedyc.org/blog/?p=944#comment-3589 <span class="topsy_trackback_comment"><span class="topsy_twitter_username"><span class="topsy_trackback_content">DYC Blog new post- Can You Help Me ? Post #2 - http://bit.ly/d3STzf</span></span> DYC Blog new post- Can You Help Me ? Post #2 -
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